When it comes to relationships, could their inherent fragility and susceptibility to frivolity stem, at least in part from the language we use to express them? Of course, online dating sites have increased the fragility and frivolity. Words like “my,” “mine” and “our” are deeply embedded in our vocabulary when referring to human relationships—phrases such as “my partner,” “my friend” or “our child.” While these terms are often intended to convey affection, connection or shared responsibility they also subtly imply possession and ownership. This framing, however unintentional may unconsciously shape how we perceive and navigate our bonds with others. Ownership language carries with it an implicit expectation of control or entitlement. In relationships, this can manifest as a sense that the other person is obligated to fulfill certain […]

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